Corpsman wife view of Military and Parenting
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What is our you goal list for the next 10 years?? Have you even thought about it?
Are you just living day by day?
Do I have any followers who are a MA?
Do you like?
Do you enjoy your job more?
Do you have fun?
So have officially picked the state we will be moving to.. The Big Sky State..
MONTANA!
We took a trip to Montana in November 2017. We fell in love with state, The people is awesome. Now just to find our city. I love the small city, It was will be a huge adjustment, But I am able to have to have my dream farmhouse, a dream to have a farm, Cows, Horses, Sheep, Chicken.. as also have my first green house! I always helped my grandparents grow their garden. Hard work but amazing veggies!
Can followers from Montana? Help us find pick a city! We are looking at Roundup area and Huntley area!
Hey All,
So as some may know, My husband is a Corpsman in the US Navy. We have meet some really awesome friends who we call our “Mil Family”! Well yesterday, My husband and HIs friend Lyn came home to say they want to start a Non-Profit! I was so excited! Add it to the plate!
We are coming up with the logo, Idea, Concept, How to pitch this idea to his CMC and Base CO! So If I am a little MIA, Sorry!!!! But I will check in as often as I can! So anyway back to this non profit.
Lyn and my husband spend their free time working on their Jeeps, Fishing and 4-wheeling. So Why not take their hobby and help veterans and sailors! The idea for this non profit is to get more people outdoors, Put your car the test without breaking it, If it does break learn how to fix it and also those who don’t have a Jeep can still just tag along and have fun!
If you have started a Non-profit, please drop a comment and give me tips! I want to help these boys as much as possible!
Have you tried a new diet a few times? Did you stop because you become busy? It was a phase? You weren’t happy? Just wasn’t you??
I have guilty of pretty much all of those. I have an excuse book for dieting. I am not really a fan of it. I just have to watch how I eat. I don’t like someone telling me I am doing it wrong. I have to fall and get back up! I watch my Cousin go through so much weight loss and Yes I am SO inspired. I am Motivated, I am capable. I just do not finically have the time to spent money of things like Beach Body, Pruvit, Itworks, etc.
I do like trying out these items and will totally be down to do trail. But I can not commit to spending $160a month for something like this. That is my grocery bill for 2 weeks right there. I Still bite my nails at the register too!
So this weekend, My husband and I tired some Ketos things I see my cousin post about. There good. Flavor was good but I laid down in bed and I was completely sick! I am have been feeling like crud for 2 days now. Gross! But at the same time I am not discouraging ANYONE from trying these items. They were great but with my health issues, I can’t proceed with them. Which sucks, because my dad who is picky than ever LOVES these!! (Not the halo top) The Ketos. I will post a link to my cousin website and totally say read about Ketos, Try it! See how you like it. I had a ton of energy with ZERO coffee
And I know a lot of are like 
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Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/koloradoketo
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Enjoy Shopping But Love Saving more?
Seen the show on TLC called Extreme Couponing? Many of those women put so much time into couponing. Who has time for that when you work full time, take care of the children, dogs and husband, and Housework? Crazy!
I personally did want to save money when I shop and wasn’t exactly sure. So, I went on the Apple App store and Looked up “Coupons” I was giving such great apps. At this point still very clueless. So I was went back into the app store and while the apps were downloading I was looking over how to use, reviews and really wondering how will i do this.
I realized, I first off need to make my food meal List.
Planned for 14 days or 1 month.
Write down every item i needed.
Looked in the Fridge & Pantry to see what we had.
Asked myself these questions:
What is my budget?
Is there a Farmers Market close by?
Have I looked at the apps?
Then I went shopping! I am so happy with what I have earned all ready. I also have been able to coupon shop with other items such as Clothing, House items & Auto tools!
Here are some apps I truly encourage you to download:
Google Express $10 off your Purchase of $15.00 : E4GDN82MF
Commissary Reward: Ask when you Check out!
Walmart: Savings Catcher! Scan your Receipt after every purchase at Walmart
Checkout 51: Scan your Receipt after every purchase*
Fetch Rewards: Select the brands you use and Scan your Receipt after every purchase
Ibotta: Scan your Receipt after every purchase*
Jet: Online retailer offering discounted prices on a wide variety of products
Receipt Pal: Scan your Receipt after every purchase & Earn Amazon Gift Cards
Tri•Care: Standard Vs. Prime
Standard – You are able to pick your doctors with a Co-Payment
Prime – On post, But excludes Dental
Getting Referrals (TriCare West): https://www.tricare.mil/FindDoctor/Appointments/Referrals
Army & National Gaurd Ranking:
Pay: https://www.military-ranks.org/army-pay
US Navy:
https://www.military-ranks.org/navy
Pay:https://www.military-ranks.org/navy-pay
US Marines:
https://www.military-ranks.org/marine-corps
Pay:https://www.military-ranks.org/marine-corps-pay
Air Force:
https://www.military-ranks.org/air-force
Pay:https://www.military-ranks.org/air-force-pay
Coast Guard:
https://www.military-ranks.org/coast-guard
Pay:https://www.military-ranks.org/coast-guard-pay
Military Discount:
https://members.veteransadvantage.com/user/vr-enrollment?partner=cj&cj=true
Govx.com
Understanding your base & it’s rules:
know to walk on the left side while he’s in uniform
Marines Base: No flip flops at MXC, No tank tops at MXC, NO PDA while service member is in uniform or in Civinal clothes while on duty. Holding Hands: Military personnel are not allowed to hold hands while in uniform. Males may escort women or help the elderly, but affectionate hand holding is a no-no. Some spouses have mentioned locking elbows with your spouse is an acceptable practice, so check with your specific command to determine your installation’s rules.
▪ Smoking: There is a lot of variation when it comes to the regulations of smoking. Some installations don’t allow it at all in uniform, others may allow it while standing, and in some instances it’s permissible at all times. Be sure to learn the protocol of your area. Fun Fact: Our current post Avation is allowed a 5 minutes smoke break, and if denied it’s considered a health issue(Who would have known)
▪ Gum: It may be considered unprofessional for your spouse to chew gum in uniform.
▪ Sharing Uniform: Your spouse may get in trouble if photos of you or others are seen wearing their uniform. It may also be considered disrespectful for spouses to wear PTs.
▪ Umbrellas: There is still debate over the umbrella rule across the different branches. Often, uniformed members are not allowed to carry an umbrella. In some cases, females are allowed to carry one as long as it is solid black.
▪ Eating/Drinking: Service members are not supposed to eat or drink anything while they are walking. While driving, it may be acceptable depending on where you’re stationed.
▪ Cellphones: One wife posted to a discussion on MilSpouse about her surprise when her husband said he couldn’t call her on the phone because he couldn’t stand still. Then she learned he was simply following a “no walk and talk” cellphone rule. Our current base, rule is: Business related only!
▪ Left Side: When you are walking somewhere with your spouse, be sure to walk on their left side. Otherwise you may get in the way when they need to salute.
Spouses Rank:
Now this has many people laughing or taken serious! It is service members rank not spouses. As a spouse, We both life the lifestyle is someways but we did not go to boot camp, go to A school and sure did not take the test for that rank. So there for WE do NOT get saluted at gate, we do NOT wear our spouses rank and we STAND BY THEM no matter their rank!
LES Breakdown:
Do you know what Self help or Self Love is? Take a second and think of when is the last time you actually took a second to yourself, bought yourself a cute outfit for no reason, smiled just because.
Let’s break down what self help is… the use of one’s own efforts and resources to achieve things without relying on others.
Now Self love… regard for one’s own well-being and happiness (chiefly considered as a desirable rather than narcissistic characteristic).
This book is one of many great resources. I will totally recommend this book to anyone, no matter what your situation is. Depression, Break up, Not sure where to go in life, need a refresher, want a fresh start.
As a mom who has been staying home the last few weeks, I realized how much i spend with my daughter. How much of my day is not spent alone. I realized that bringing my daughter to hourly day care is okay, How just having a cup of coffee in peace is not harmful. Going to the gym for an hour a day is perfectly fine. Going down stairs after my little on is asleep to have a glass of wine, perfect okay!
Do yoga, have a journal, write a blog, go live on facebook, read books!
Ask yourself these questions:
What’s in it for me?
Are Your negative beliefs are the biggest obstacle between you and your dreams?
Why Do you Quit?
What is desire to learn, cultivate gratitude, and learn how to forgive for a happier, richer life.
“You are perfect. To think anything less is as pointless as a river thinking that it’s got too many curves or that it moves too slowly or that its rapids are too rapid. Says who? You’re on a journey with no defined beginning, middle or end. There are no wrong twists and turns. There is just being. And your job is to be as you as you can be. This is why you’re here. To shy away from who you truly are would leave the world you-less. You are the only you there is and ever will be. I repeat, you are the only you there is and ever will be. Do not deny the world its one and only chance to bask in your brilliance.” – Jen Sincero, You Are a Badass: How to Stop Doubting Your Greatness and Start Living an Awesome Life
Many turn on the TV for background noise! Great Idea, But have you ever considered a Podcast? My husband listens them on long road trips or working on the car. I always thought he was crazy. Car Rides were meant for Music, Long Conversation, the “silly side” to come out, the “truth” beyond truth to see if you really are meant to be with someone.
Not in this household, So one day I accepted it. Wow, Why couldn’t I have a more open mind about things!! There is some really awesome podcast out there, Mom life, how to self love, Self Challenges, Lifestyle, Worship, Comedy! Take a second, Download a few podcast. Listen to a few, who knows you may like it faster than others. As for myself, I am in 5 podcast from Stassi for the show “Vanderpump Rules” Awesome! Good Laughs!
Here are some I suggest for you to listen to:
Hey Y’all
Sorry I have MIA for a little bit, I have been mentally preparing my Daughter going away for a week. This is such a hard thing as I am a first time mom. Everyday, My daughter and I do everything together. She is my best friend.
I want to let you know this week will be so on top of it!! You will see a post every day!
Hope everyone has a great weekend!
Are you looking for ideas for Care packages for your Children off to College or someone who is deployed?
Here is some ideas:
Some Sentimental Ideas:
Skype Giftcard
Hand written letter
Letters from the children
“Open When” Letters
Art Work from Children
Calendar
Pocket Size Photo Album
Not Just Any Corpsman Wife 